Nerd is my Gender

What's yours?

• • 564
  • Oct 19
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  fucked-up binarist/cissexist shit you should never say to or about a trans* person

  glitterbitchxx:

  • “why don’t you identify as cis, you dress/look/act like your assigned gender”
  • “I don’t want to use your preferred pronouns because they don’t fit my perception of you/they are too hard to remember”
  • point out whether they are passing
  • point out things about them that remind you of their assigned gender
  • “I think you’re doing this for attention”
  • out them in a new space (inside jokes about their gender identity that would require outing them to explain count as outing)
  • make a point to only compliment them when they are presenting as their assigned gender
  • “why are you dressed like a boy/girl?”

  I really want to like you so don’t do this please because I will immediately hate you to death

  my best friend is a heteronormative (mostly) straight cis dude who respects my pronouns and will defend my gender identity to other people and knows very little about queer politics and if he can behave himself so can you so knock it the fuck off

  People can and do manage to avoid the things on things on this list on a continued basis. It is not outside the realm of reasonable expectations for human behavior.

  (Source: noir-prince)

  • #genderqueer
  • #gender
  • #trans*
  • #transgender
  • #lgbtq
  • #quiltbag
  • #gsm
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